Bruises

It wasn’t long before the blood rose to the surface. A red slash on my hip from the crack of the whip was the first to appear. Next came the speckled purple and blue on my boob, slapped by you. How would my cheek react? Hands around my throat making me choke as you thrust…

NFSW: Dominating Life, Submitting in the Sheets…

As regular readers will know, 2020 has so far been an experience.  Not least because I split with my ex just before a global lockdown, or because I’ve got a new job as an erotic scriptwriter, but also because I’ve been delving deeper into the world of kink. I’ve always loved talking to people and finding out what…

Erotic Escapades

I have a big, exciting announcement: I have a new freelance job as an erotic scriptwriter for Emjoy. Emjoy produces audio erotica, mainly catered for women’s aural pleasure.  And there’s something for everyone: one chilli indicates a sensual story, two chillies allude to a sexier narrative and three chillies mean you’re in for a saucy…

What Are The 5 Languages of Love?

At the beginning of lockdown, I’m sure many of us had grand plans to learn another language and another skill.  Despite my half-arsed efforts, this has not happened.  However, (amongst exploring Kink, Desire and new recesses of Pornhub) I have learnt about the ‘Five Love Languages‘ that help us to have happier relationships with our…

Locked-down Love: Passion and BDSM.

365 Days It’s been heralded Poland’s answer to 50 Shades…  If that’s anything to go by, I expected shoddy scriptwriting, the word ‘Fuck’ to be uttered every other word and a female lead who’s utterly pathetic. I was only right on one account. As Netflix’s number 1 movie currently (disclaimer: I wrote this a few…

How Does It Feel To Live With An Ex?

Just before lockdown, I broke up with my ex.  It was a strange breakup because we lived together in my home with housemates, so it was always going to be tricky. We took it slow and cared for one another – then a pandemic hit.  Moving back home for lockdown with my family was both…

THANK YOU

Old followers will know I’ve been writing for years; new followers will soon realise I have tonnes of posts about love, lust and loss.  Whilst most of my posts come from personal lived experiences, it’s an absolute joy when others are happy (or at least willing) to feature in my blog. So thank you to…

Love and Lust in Lockdown: Self-improvement.

Lockdown has got many of us feeling hot under the collar and frisky between the sheets.  To find out how lockdown has impacted our love and lusting, I’m getting intimate with interviews.   George, 30. What is your relationship status? Single.   Describe your love-life in one word. Wondering.   Who have you been quarantining…

Love and Lust in Lockdown: Day by day.

Lockdown has got many of us feeling hot under the collar and frisky between the sheets.  To find out how lockdown has impacted our love and lusting, I’m getting intimate with interviews.   D (F), 33. What is your relationship status? Undefined.   Describe your love-life in one word. Jumbled.   Who have you been…

Love and Lust in Lockdown: An education.

Lockdown has got many of us feeling hot under the collar and frisky between the sheets.  To find out how lockdown has impacted our love and lusting, I’m getting intimate with interviews.   Seb, 33. What is your relationship status? Single.   Describe your love-life in one word. Untraditional.   Who have you been quarantining…