How to Find the Perfect Partner

My housemate reckons he has dating sussed. ย So here’s his guide to finding the perfect person for you: Use the ‘Quirk Rules of Attraction Venn Diagram’ It comprises of Sexual Attraction Physical Attraction Emotional Attraction All are equally important, and the best relationships involve all three elements. If you’re physically AND sexually, but not emotionally…

You

I think I miss you.  Then when we chat, I secretly hate you and feel bad about myself.  Then you suggest we meet and I feel crap after I see you. So the new plan of action is not to text you or call you.  To be aloof.  And when you call, I’ll be busy,…

10 years vs. 5 minutes

It’s Sunday night; the end of a long, crazy weekend and Monday morning is looming. After doing all the work you meant to do over the weekend, you’re about to have a chilled evening of catch-up tv. Then you get a phone call from your best mate, aka your ex. Bottom line is that he…

Disappearing Acts…

Sometimes people disappear when they have a new relationship. Sometimes people disappear even if they’ve been with their partner for a long time. Other times, people can live in an all-consuming bubble of happiness where their only concern is for the one they love. This is fine if you’re the one disappearing from the face…

Guys and gals…

Why can’t girls and guys be friends when they’re single? I can understand why the ex and I can’t be friends (as he has a girlfriend and I’m so bloody single), but why can’t girls be friends with guys who are also single? Every bloke I know who is single – and I’m genuinely friends…