Find your core.

Your core is kindness. A friend recently said. Kindness is your soul.  Do not change.  Be true to your core even if others fuck you over.  These ‘others’ can be any ‘them – us’ group.  This year, the ‘others’ have been men.  They have screwed me over again, and again, and again.  And I’m fed up. …

It’s okay…

It’s okay that: I feel the most empowered when I feel I look hot. praise at work, a fun evening with friends, a caring evening with family is enough to make me feel loved and valued, but it doesn’t empower me. when I drive to work I like seeing who checks me out, whilst simultaneously…

What’s your ‘Scary Age’?

I have also always wanted to be a Mummy.  Growing up in a big, loving family has given me strong family values and when I was younger I presumed I’d be married with a baby on-the-way by the time I turned 27.  Evidently, this is not looking likely.  And I’m surprised at how little this…

The agony to the ecstasy.

  I was dreading being single. The effort of having to actually organise things for the weekend, rather than assuming I’d have something to do. The sheer panic of not knowing when my next shag would be. The agony of analysing every. single. message he sends. The realisation that I might be alone forever. But…