Isn’t it funny how it’s not always easy to talk to the person you’re sleeping with about the sex life you share? Will one of you judge the other? Will one of you be offended? Oh God, will one of you worry a dumping is imminent? Perhaps one of you finds communicating in general difficult…
Category: Relationships
Worried You’re Sleeping with a Narcissist? How to Spot a Selfish Lover
Years ago, I dated a self-confessed narcissist (naturally). I didn’t realise it initially; she was generous in spirit, engaging in conversation and frequently telling fascinating stories. It took me longer than I’d like to admit to spot the stories were all about her own life, and any attempt to share experiences was swiftly quashed. In…
6 Tips on How to Feel Sexy When Pregnant
Pregnancy: supposedly a time of glowing skin, luscious locks and bountiful breasts. Also a time of huffing and puffing, constipation and clothes that don’t fit. It’s hardly surprising if you don’t feel your sexiest when pregnant… There will be some women who feel fabulous throughout their pregnancies with raging sex drives and surges of femininity….
The Shadow of the Ex-Girlfriend
Many of us are curious about the partners who came before, particularly when dating someone new. In the early days of a relationship, you might find yourself wishing you could ask about the ex-girlfriend but feeling nervous about what your partner will say. Perhaps you’ve picked up the occasional snippet of her personality from conversations…
Sex Doesn’t Have to be Sexy
Think about the best sex you’ve ever had. Was it animalistic? Was it erotically risky? Was it amongst a crowd? Now think about the best sex you’ve ever had and remember you don’t have to share that thought with anyone. You don’t need to pretend the best sex you’ve had was in a room full…
Topping from the Bottom
You might have heard the phrase “topping from the bottom” (thanks, Fifty Shades of Grey…) and wondered what it means. Maybe you’re confused about how “topping” differs from “domming” and whether you can bottom from the top, dom from the bottom or top as a Dom – and then your knickers are really in a…
How to Explore BDSM and Kinky Sex when Pregnant
Type “kink in pregnancy” into a search engine and you’ll mainly find medical articles about a physical kink in the ureter during pregnancy or results (that are mainly porn) about pregnancy fetishes. There are only a handful of articles covering how to explore kinky sex, like BDSM, when pregnant. At first, I was surprised –…
My Girlfriend is Pregnant. Now What?! – Your Guide from an Expectant Dad
So your girlfriend has told you she’s pregnant. Exciting, nerve-wracking time. No doubt you’re subtly Googling what to do when you find out your partner is pregnant and you’re sure to come across a torrent of advice articles. This isn’t a post about how to support your partner through pregnancy; there’s enough of that content…
Have Mindblowing Sex in the Shower with These Positions
Ever fantasised about having sex in the shower? Of course you have, you sexy beast. In fact, according to the sex toy company We Vibe, 20% of Brits regularly fantasise about having sex in the shower. But when it comes to getting wet and wild (and clean and shiny), sometimes the fantasy is better than…
How to Have the Hottest Hotel Sex with Your Lover
There’s something about hotel sex that’s just so damn hot. Getting out of the house, treating yourselves to date night luxury and knowing that the sheets aren’t yours to clean… You might have an idea of how you want the night to go but how do you make it a reality? Here are my top…
Still Searching for Prince Charming 