Within the BDSM community, one of the most widely practised kinks is impact play – striking the body of a consenting partner for sexual pleasure. So widely practised and depicted as such in the media, that for many outside of the community, “impact play” seems synonymous with BDSM. Typically, BDSM is misinterpreted as spanking and…
Category: Single Life
Ideas to Help You Talk Dirty
Looking to have your beau hot at the collar for every saucy thing you whisper to them? Find yourself stumbling and cringing when trying to sling two sentences together? You’ve come to the right place. With the reputation of being a sex blogger, I’ve strived to get my lovers squirming in their pants for all…
8 Ways to Get Over Your Ex
Getting over an ex can be tough; even if you were the one to end the relationship. Sure, time heals, but there are ways to get over your ex faster that don’t involve a therapist. 1. Embrace activities that give you joy You may feel bereft without your former partner, but throwing yourself into activities…
Declining Giving Someone Your Number
Dating apps are a great way to connect with potential love interests, whether locally or if you’re exploring further afield. Yet before long, someone is bound to want to take the conversation off the platform and probably onto WhatsApp. Guidance on being safe while online dating advises not to share your number with someone you…
Acronyms on Dating Sites: What Do They Mean?
Your definitive guide to BBCs, DDlgs and FWBs, and how to tell your TG from your CB.
16 Red Flags Not to Ignore When Dating Someone New
With the benefit of hindsight, many of the people I’ve dated over the years had red flags cropping up here and there. Here are 16 red flags I should have spotted but didn’t. My mother did, but mothers always do. Photo by Priscilla Du Preez 🇨🇦 on Unsplash
“Choose Your Own Adventure” – A Sexy Script
A sexy script I’ve never published. Choose Your Own Adventure INT. EARLY EVENING, A LIVELY RESTAURANT We can hear other people chatting in the restaurant and music in the background. The waiter approaches the table where Max and Rosie are sitting. WAITER The Portuguese white? ROSIE (simultaneously) Lovely, thank you! MAX (simultaneously) Awesome, thanks. We…
Temperature Play: From Hot and Sticky to Cool and Slippery
Ever fancied the idea of using an ice-cold dildo but don’t want it sticking to your vag? Like the thought of hot wax but not third-degree burns? For top tips on making temperature play go down a treat, I’ve got you covered. Temperature play is a form of (consensual) sensation play whereby people explore and…
What to Pack for a Sexy Mini-break
Seeking a last-minute, sexy getaway before Britain’s brief summer ends and a long winter begins? Here’s what to pack for a sexy minibreak with your partner. How can I be of service, Madam? If you’re both hoping to explore role-play, pack some sexy role-play outfits that suit your fantasies. Some ideas: cops and robbers, nurse…
The Primal Rockstar – An Erotic Story
I originally wrote this for Aurore – “porn with a plotline”, published in August 2022 under the alternative title, “Starfucking”. There’s nothing like being at a live show – dancing in a sea of people, being pushed around as you all sing and shout lyrics in unison, albeit mainly off-key. You feel the drumbeat move…
Still Searching for Prince Charming 
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