Love and Lust in Lockdown: Adventures to cum.

Lockdown has got many of us feeling hot under the collar and frisky between the sheets.  To find out how lockdown has impacted our love and lusting, I’m getting intimate with interviews.   Holly, 28. What is your relationship status? Single. Describe your love-life in one word. Enticing. Who have you been quarantining with? The…

Love and Lust in Lockdown: Affairs of the heart.

Lockdown has got many of us feeling hot under the collar and frisky between the sheets.  To find out how lockdown has impacted our love and lusting, I’m getting intimate with interviews.   KevinAmari, 42. What is your relationship status? Complicated but incredibly good fun.  I’m having affairs with two married women, plus there’s a…

Love and Lust in Lockdown: A travelling man.

Lockdown has got many of us feeling hot under the collar and frisky between the sheets.  To find out how lockdown has impacted our love and lusting, I’m getting intimate with interviews.   Willy, 27. What is your relationship status? Single.   Describe your love-life in one word. Messy.   Who have you been quarantining…

Lockdown Frustrations

Lockdown is still in place. The horny single people are still horny and single. Some of us have caved and messaged or slept with an ex. Some of us have snogged and shagged our friends; lines have blurred.

NSFW: Behind Closed Doors

During times of isolation with arguably too much time to think, we often assess what’s important to us.  For some, this is explicitly figuring out our wants and needs by making lists and talking with friends, and for others, this might be an internal dialogue; giving ourselves time to re-evaluate things in our lives. For…

We need to talk about vulvas

Like most of the world, I’ve been quarantined at home for over two months.  I miss a lot of things, including book clubs, writing classes and random Brighton events.   Last week, I saw an event by ohne x This is a Vulva and it was exactly the kind of event I’d drag my girlies…

NSFW: Kink in Quarantine

It wasn’t until the last few years of my twenties that I realised that rough sex is more common than I originally thought. Yes, hair-pulling is a frequent bedroom occurrence. Yes, Pornhub is awash with all manner of synonyms for ‘BDSM’. But when you know where to look, you find a crowd you had previously…

Oceans

Your voice envelopes me across oceans. Letters on the page transcribe a deeper intimacy and the confidence with which you speak rouses me down the telephone line. And I feel like I’ve known you for years.   Photo by Sithamshu Manoj on Unsplash

Feeling Normal in Non-Normal Times

Last month, I wrote about dating during the time of a global pandemic.  Since then, not much has changed; we’re still all stuck indoors and trying to get our kicks online.  But with a lot of time to think, I’ve been considering ways we’re connecting romantically with others.  Can we form romantic connections online with…

Dating in the time of corona.

We’re all inside.  We’re all watching far too much TV and I’m sure some of us are eating far too many biscuits.  And it’s becoming very evident that a lot of people are on dating apps; certainly more than usual. In fact, this week a friend shared an article with me that said: On the…