30 Lessons for 30

One month ago, I turned 30. Here’s what I’ve learnt so far: You can be authentic and not give everything away. Don’t feel guilty about giving up on a book after about 80 pages. It may be a bestseller but you’re not hooked – let someone else enjoy it and move onto a different book….

How to Give A Good Blowjob

Whether you’re looking for advice on how to give a blowjob or blowjob tips more generally, you’ve cum come to the right place. You’ll probably have worked out from my blog that I don’t have a willy, so I’ve rounded up the wise words of male friends and Feeld connections to tell me how to…

Top 10 – Wicked Wednesday

Each Wednesday there’s a prompt for bloggers to create an erotic post along this theme. This week, the prompt was “Top 10”. (I rarely get involved with Wicked Wednesday, not because I don’t like the prompts but because my day job is writing and editing, some weeks my brain is fried and creative juices dry…

2021 Porn Trends

We all know porn is big business. According to a 2015 report, 40 million adults in the US regularly visit Internet porn sites (though how often the study quantifies “regular viewing” is anyone’s guess), every second 28,258 users are watching porn and yet porn is estimated to only make up 4% of the Internet. Earlier…

Is Dating Advice Totally Useless?

“Keep your cards close to your chest.” “Be upfront early on.” Honestly, which is it? There’s a new trend in dating called “hardballing”. (Although, let’s be frank, it’s not a new trend, it’s a phenomena that’s recently been re-branded.) Hardballing suggests you be totally upfront with a potential love-interest before you go on the date:…

How To Have Sex Without Family Hearing… A Festive Guide to Fucking

You’re heading home for Christmas. Your partner is in tow. You’re so excited for all the romantic, festive sex you’ll have. Then one of you remembers there’s a baby sister and a dog to avoid… So, how do you have sex without your family hearing? Here are my Top Tips for Festive Fucking: If you…

A Night at Torture Garden

We hear the techno reverberating off the walls as we swagger inside. Ascending the stairs in our red lips and statement coats concealing latex lingerie, our excitement permeates the surroundings as much as the music. Do we have cash for the cloakroom? Of course not – where would we keep it? We fling our coats…

A Relationship by Numbers

At first I began documenting our dates so we could look back on them over the coming year(s?!) and remember the start of our relationship. Perhaps this should have been evidence enough that we saw each other so infrequently, there had to be a log almost to prove it happened. And here we have it,…

Is He Having An Affair… With Me?

Has the wool been pulled over my eyes? Did I miss all the red flags because I wanted him to be something more than he was? Was I a total fool? Worse – was I the Other Woman? After almost six months, I’d never been to his house, I’d never met his friends, I’d never…

A Taste of Tantra

Last week, my boyfriend and I tried tantric sex. We’d been talking about it for a while but I was a little apprehensive at the intimacy of it because we haven’t been together for very long. Rather than being awkward or amusing, it was an incredibly intimate experience that’s only deepened our relationship. Needless to…