Within the BDSM community, one of the most widely practised kinks is impact play – striking the body of a consenting partner for sexual pleasure. So widely practised and depicted as such in the media, that for many outside of the community, “impact play” seems synonymous with BDSM. Typically, BDSM is misinterpreted as spanking and…
Category: Relationships
The Art of Orgasm Edging
Have you heard the term “edging” and wondered what it means? Are you here to find out how to do it or learn new ways to incorporate edging into your sexual repertoire? Seasoned edgers and edging novices: read on. So what does “edging” actually mean? Edging is when a person brings themself (or is brought…
5 Surprising Ways Being a Parent has Changed our Relationship
After a year together, my partner and I had a baby. The pregnancy was a marvellous surprise and parenting has been a total joy. We expected there to be sleepless nights, less sex and fewer dates but we didn’t expect some changes. Love Languages Our love languages have changed. My partner and I both had…
The Reality of Sex as a New Parent
7:30 PM – BATHTIME Daddy: It’s been months since we had a romantic bath together. Mummy: We could hop in now with the baby? Daddy: Hmm, in the last few baths, he’s done explosive poos so I might give the bath a miss… 7:45 PM – WINDDOWN Mummy: Come and cuddle us on the sofa….
“Choose Your Own Adventure” – A Sexy Script
A sexy script I’ve never published. Choose Your Own Adventure INT. EARLY EVENING, A LIVELY RESTAURANT We can hear other people chatting in the restaurant and music in the background. The waiter approaches the table where Max and Rosie are sitting. WAITER The Portuguese white? ROSIE (simultaneously) Lovely, thank you! MAX (simultaneously) Awesome, thanks. We…
Having a Baby Improved My Sex Life. Here’s How
Everyone warns you about the catastrophic effect of having children on your sex life. They say: “Your pelvic floor won’t feel the same”, “You’ll hardly find time for each other”, and “You’ll be covered in baby vomit most of the time”. But having a baby together strengthens the connection between you and your partner. Together,…
Temperature Play: From Hot and Sticky to Cool and Slippery
Ever fancied the idea of using an ice-cold dildo but don’t want it sticking to your vag? Like the thought of hot wax but not third-degree burns? For top tips on making temperature play go down a treat, I’ve got you covered. Temperature play is a form of (consensual) sensation play whereby people explore and…
What to Pack for a Sexy Mini-break
Seeking a last-minute, sexy getaway before Britain’s brief summer ends and a long winter begins? Here’s what to pack for a sexy minibreak with your partner. How can I be of service, Madam? If you’re both hoping to explore role-play, pack some sexy role-play outfits that suit your fantasies. Some ideas: cops and robbers, nurse…
5 Top Apps for Sexual Wellness
Is your sex drive too low or too high? Are you having enough sex? Can you have too much sex? The internet is awash with ways to tell us we’re not having enough sex and that we need to have more, more, more! But is the advice we read online or in magazines really all…
Your Guide to Dating in Brighton
Everyone says that “Brighton is London by the sea”. People who say this don’t live in Brighton… Brighton comes into its own during the hot summer months when it’s heaving with locals and visitors alike; people flocking to the seaside for quintessentially-British fish and chips, booze and music with a view, and to bat off…
Still Searching for Prince Charming 