What is “No Nut November”? As the clock strikes midnight on 31 October, spooky season ends and No Nut November (NNN) begins. #NoNutNovember sprung up on social media in 2011 and gained popularity in 2017. Since then, men have been pledging to abstain from ejaculating for the entire month of November, testing their willpower and…
Category: Single Life
5 Ways to Get Guys to Respond on Bumble
I first wrote this in 2017 then, in 2022 when I was still active on Bumble, I Googled this question. In 2024, I’m no longer on dating apps having found my partner on – you guessed it – Bumble. Nevertheless, an update is due… Over the years, I’ve tried nearly all the dating sites and…
2023 Porn Trends
Who doesn’t like a round-up of the previous year in September?! Some might say it’s the perfect time as we gear up to the rundowns of the current year. The last time I looked at porn trends was in 2021, shortly after Covid when people had spent a lot of time indoors, wondering how to…
I Tried the Dating App, “Thursday”. Here’s What Happened
I originally wrote this review of the dating app “Thursday” in March 2022. As it’s been a popular post, in September 2024, I downloaded Thursday again to see what’s changed. Anyone who reads this blog regularly knows I’ve been on and off dating apps for the best part of 200 years. I’ve tried Tinder, Hinge,…
What Do Women Want in Bed?
What do women fantasise about? Gillian Anderson’s hotly anticipated new book “Want” is a collection of 174 sexual fantasies of women from around the world. Published in September 2024, the book began as the project “Dear Gillian” which received over 1,800 anonymous submissions from women about their deepest fantasies. In her introduction, Anderson says she…
Top 10 Books About Sex – 2024
Online and in bookstores, there’s no shortage of books about sex. We’re fascinated by it and we all know it sells – and if Fifty Shades of Grey taught us anything it’s that sex doesn’t need to be written well to fly off the shelves. The problem is, though, that good books about sex are…
Can Women Have Wet Dreams?
Wet dreams are often thought of as a nuisance for teenage boys so you can imagine my surprise when, one day last week, I woke up at 5 AM feeling like I’d had an orgasm. Had I actually dreamt I had an orgasm? No, I really did climax – hands-free. I’d forgotten that this had…
What Does Your Zodiac Sign Say About Your Sex Life?
Remember the days of flicking to the back of Seventeen magazine and scanning the horoscopes page to find out whether you’ll kiss your crush this weekend? For astrology believers, horoscope predictions are more than just a fun section in a glossy mag – they provide a deep understanding of what the cosmos holds for us….
Erectile Issues? Help is at Hand
Erectile dysfunction affects anywhere between 3% and 75% of men in the UK. (Estimates vary because studies use different criteria and assessment methods to define ED and the ages of the sampled participants may differ, King’s College, 2019.) Despite its increasing prevalence as men age, ED is often a source of shame, embarrassment and frustration…
Ideas to Help You Talk Dirty
Looking to have your beau hot at the collar for every saucy thing you whisper to them? Find yourself stumbling and cringing when trying to sling two sentences together? You’ve come to the right place. With the reputation of being a sex blogger, I’ve strived to get my lovers squirming in their pants for all…
Still Searching for Prince Charming 