A Hopeless Quest for Love?

Something strange happened recently: a random number messaged me on WhatsApp. Usually, when I exchange numbers with someone I’ve been speaking with (on- or offline) I save their number in my phone or they send a message not long after so I can save theirs. There were no hangers-on in the dating apps I used…

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Top 100 Sex Blogs 2020 Nominations

Molly Moore at Molly’s Daily Kiss has announced the nominations are open for the Top 100 Sex Blogs of 2020. Over the years, I’ve found these lists an invaluable resource to connect with other sex bloggers. And whilst I don’t blog as frequently as some of my fellow bloggers (WordPress notifies me of new blog…

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A Speed-Dating Night with Skirt Club

Over lockdown, I joined Skirt Club; a private members’ club for bisexual and bicurious women. Naturally, Covid isn’t very conducive to groups of women flirting in bars and luxury homes – especially now we’re back to the rule of 6 – and so we’ve had to enjoy one another’s company over Zoom. Fortunately, a few…

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Why I Write About Sex

When I started this blog at the age of 21 (I am now 28), I wanted to write about my experiences of sex, dating and relationships because what I wanted to find out and talk about regarding sex wasn’t available in the magazines I was reading, the porn I was watching or the websites I…

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Why Are We Faking It?

The pay gap’s sister, the orgasm gap, has recently had me thinking. Sexually confident and liberated women all over the world are faking orgasms. Some may be faking it because they don’t know if they’ve climaxed, others fake it so sex ends sooner and others do it because they want to placate the person they’re…

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Sex Ed: Are We Doing Enough?

Children and young people across the world are returning to their classrooms. Over the past five months, many will have learnt how to make pasta from scratch, re-read all the Harry Potter books or completed their favourite video game twice over. Other children will have smoked their first spliff in the park with friends or been plonked…

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Those Chaotic Twenties…

Those chaotic twenties,characterised by comparison and rumination;when career successes brush up against career panics.And Saturday night’s laughter shape-shifts into Sunday’s regret;as frivolous explorationtransforms into “unbecoming behaviour”.Through which independence beckonsand financial demands loom,yet childhood lurks behind our shoulders.But those chaotic twenties,as love, desire and passion are no longer entrenched in shame.And we approach our thirties a…

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Sub Space House

Creating Sub Space House When “Ropes” and “Wing Girl” created Sub Space House in December 2019, they didn’t expect a lockdown to stop their frivolous fun. Despite this, the pair are keen to resume events once it’s safe to do so and they have big, big plans for taking Sub Space global. To find out…

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Bruises

Trigger warning: rough sex (consensual but rough) It wasn’t long before the blood rose to the surface. A red slash on my hipfrom the crack of the whipwas the first to appear. Next came the speckled purple and blueon my boob, slapped by you. How would my cheek react? Hands around my throatmaking me chokeas…

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Dominating Life, Submitting in the Sheets…

As regular readers will know, 2020 has so far been an experience.  Not least because I split with my ex just before a global lockdown, or because I’ve got a new job as an erotic scriptwriter for Emjoy, but also because I’ve been delving deeper into the world of kink. I’ve always loved talking to people and finding…

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