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Temperature Play: From Hot and Sticky to Cool and Slippery

Ever fancied the idea of using an ice-cold dildo but don’t want it sticking to your vag? Like the thought of hot wax but not third-degree burns? For top tips on making temperature play go down a treat, I’ve got you covered. Temperature play is a form of (consensual) sensation play whereby people explore and…

What to Pack for a Sexy Mini-break

Seeking a last-minute, sexy getaway before Britain’s brief summer ends and a long winter begins? Here’s what to pack for a sexy minibreak with your partner. How can I be of service, Madam? If you’re both hoping to explore role-play, pack some sexy role-play outfits that suit your fantasies. Some ideas: cops and robbers, nurse…

The Primal Rockstar – An Erotic Story

I originally wrote this for Aurore – “porn with a plotline”, published in August 2022 under the alternative title, “Starfucking”. There’s nothing like being at a live show – dancing in a sea of people, being pushed around as you all sing and shout lyrics in unison, albeit mainly off-key. You feel the drumbeat move…

To the Mummies Rocking Their Babies to Sleep

To the mummies rocking their babies to sleep: I see you rocking your baby in that new rocking chair while the aroma of poo hangs in the air. I hear you pacing the rooms hushing “Shhh” on repeat, waiting for baby to be heavy with sleep. I feel your hearts bleeding from inconsolable crying, praying…

5 Top Apps for Sexual Wellness

Is your sex drive too low or too high? Are you having enough sex? Can you have too much sex? The internet is awash with ways to tell us we’re not having enough sex and that we need to have more, more, more! But is the advice we read online or in magazines really all…

Your Guide to Dating in Brighton

Everyone says that “Brighton is London by the sea”. People who say this don’t live in Brighton… Brighton comes into its own during the hot summer months when it’s heaving with locals and visitors alike; people flocking to the seaside for quintessentially-British fish and chips, booze and music with a view, and to bat off…

Can Submission and Feminism Align?

In various sexual relationships over the years, I’ve explored my submissive side, yet I call myself a feminist. But can you be a feminist as a submissive? Does submission conflict with feminist ideals? Yes you can and no, it doesn’t have to. How does submission encompass feminism? Finding yourself wanting to play with the power…

How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex

Isn’t it funny how it’s not always easy to talk to the person you’re sleeping with about the sex life you share? Will one of you judge the other? Will one of you be offended? Oh God, will one of you worry a dumping is imminent? Perhaps one of you finds communicating in general difficult…

Worried You’re Sleeping with a Narcissist? How to Spot a Selfish Lover

Years ago, I dated a self-confessed narcissist (naturally). I didn’t realise it initially; she was generous in spirit, engaging in conversation and frequently telling fascinating stories. It took me longer than I’d like to admit to spot the stories were all about her own life, and any attempt to share experiences was swiftly quashed. In…

6 Tips on How to Feel Sexy When Pregnant

Pregnancy: supposedly a time of glowing skin, luscious locks and bountiful breasts. Also a time of huffing and puffing, constipation and clothes that don’t fit. It’s hardly surprising if you don’t feel your sexiest when pregnant… There will be some women who feel fabulous throughout their pregnancies with raging sex drives and surges of femininity….