Another Glossary of BDSM Terms

Recently I published a Glossary for BDSM after a poll on my Instagram showed followers were unsure on some of the common BDSM acronyms. Fellow kink blogger, Helen, commented with additional terms prevalent in the BDSM community. Whilst my original glossary was never meant to be an Ultimate Guide, we’re blogging to educate so what…

How to Broach BDSM with your Partner

This post was originally written for Torture Garden and posted on their blog. Torture Garden is the world’s largest Fetish and Body Art Club with global events attracting open-minded individuals of all sexual orientations and genders. By Holly Field. You’ve found your way to Torture Garden’s website, so the chances are you’re interested in the…

A Glossary for BDSM

Have you come across terms in articles, blog posts or on dating apps that you’re sure are sexual but you’re apprehensive to Google them? Let me provide a glossary to help you understand what on Earth is going on… (In no way is this an expansive list – this has come about by followers on…

The Art of a D/s Relationship

This post was originally written for Torture Garden and posted on their blog. Torture Garden is the world’s largest Fetish and Body Art Club with global events attracting open-minded individuals of all sexual orientations and genders. By Holly Field. Anyone can boss someone around, dishing out rewards and punishments but engaging in a D/s (Dominant/submissive)…

How to Explore BDSM Whilst in Quarantine

This post was originally written for Torture Garden and posted on their blog. Torture Garden is the world’s largest Fetish and Body Art Club with global events attracting open-minded individuals of all sexual orientations and genders. By Holly Field. It’s been a long year and during this pandemic, our sex lives have taken a battering….

NSFW: Shibari Workshop

Earlier this week, my housemate and I tuned into Anatomie Studio‘s online Shibari class. The session focused on floor self-tying with the aim to learn key knots and rope positioning. So, we fetched our rope, poured two glasses of Bailey’s and plugged the Mac into the TV… We were ready to up-skill in Lockdown 2.0….

NSFW: Sub Space House

When ‘Ropes’ and ‘Wing Girl’ created Sub Space House in December 2019, they didn’t expect a lockdown to put a stop to their frivolous fun. Despite this, the pair are keen to resume events once it’s safe to do so and they have big, big plans for taking Sub Space global. To find out more…

Bruises

It wasn’t long before the blood rose to the surface. A red slash on my hip from the crack of the whip was the first to appear. Next came the speckled purple and blue on my boob, slapped by you. How would my cheek react? Hands around my throat making me choke as you thrust…

NFSW: Dominating Life, Submitting in the Sheets…

As regular readers will know, 2020 has so far been an experience.  Not least because I split with my ex just before a global lockdown, or because I’ve got a new job as an erotic scriptwriter, but also because I’ve been delving deeper into the world of kink. I’ve always loved talking to people and finding out what…

Locked-down Love: Passion and BDSM.

365 Days It’s been heralded Poland’s answer to 50 Shades…  If that’s anything to go by, I expected shoddy scriptwriting, the word ‘Fuck’ to be uttered every other word and a female lead who’s utterly pathetic. I was only right on one account. As Netflix’s number 1 movie currently (disclaimer: I wrote this a few…