If you’ve found your way here, you’re likely still hunting for sexy songs. Maybe you didn’t find enough songs for your sexy playlist in part 1 or part 2, or maybe you’re the kind of person who listens to sexy music all night long. Either way, pick and choose from this unordered selection. For me,…
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Noodles: A Declaration of Love
The baby’s in bed. I’m on the sofa with either my book or blog open. The boyfriend is in the kitchen, cooking up his signature dish – though he’s embarrassed to call it so. I know I have 45 minutes to an hour in which to absorb myself in words; someone else’s or my own,…
The Joy of Small Things
Bookish readers will know that last month, Arundhati Roy (author of The God of Small Things) published her first memoir, and the paperback of Nigel Slater’s A Thousand Feasts was released. Slater’s book celebrates the “little joys illuminating an increasingly darkening world” – moments which can “feed the soul”. In the spirit of small things,…
Things Said in Private
Prince Charming and I are watching the newest season of Married at First Sight Australia (MAFSA). We didn’t want to. We promised we’d skip lots. But now we almost look forward to it each evening. Fast-forward the recaps and teasers, whizz through the lovey-dovey couples and get to the good stuff. In this week’s Commitment…
Even More Sex Toys for Couples, And How to Use Them
Jingling into week three, the Lovehoney Advent Calendar delivered sensual toys for solo and partnered play – with a few spicier items thrown in. Body massager Day 15’s box contained a body massager with an ergonomic handle and different-sized nodules for targeted pressure that work deep into the muscles. IMHO, it’s the best gift yet…
How To Have Sex Without Family Hearing… A Festive Guide to Fucking
Originally published December 2021; updated December 2024 You’re heading home for Christmas. Your partner is in tow. You’re so excited about all the romantic, festive sex you’ll have. Then one of you remembers there’s a baby sister and a dog to avoid… And so: How do you have sex without your family hearing? Your idea…
Sex Toys for Couples – And How to Use Them
This year, I treated myself and my partner to a Lovehoney Advent Calendar. Tempting as it was, we didn’t dive into each box to devour the treasures hidden within. Instead, we’ve been very good (I hope you’re listening, Father Christmas!) and opened the boxes day by day, as Jesus intended. This blog ought to have…
Jingle Balls and Tinsel Tits – Sex Toy Advent Calendar for 2024
Fancy ditching nativity scenes and mini chocolates in favour of a more interesting December countdown? Spice up your Advent with a sex toy advent calendar bursting with gifts that keep on giving. With treats behind 12 or 24 doors, ranging from satin blindfolds to luxury sex toys (aimed at men, women or couples) there’s a…
Things I’ve Learnt in my First Year of Living With a Boyfriend
It’s been almost a year since my boyfriend and I moved in together. Blissful harmony? Mostly. Ridiculous squabbles? Certainly. Here’s what I’ve learned from 12 months of living with my man. The face towel by the sink is not safe In my former home with my bathroom all to myself, I could confidently dry my…
Keeping the Spark Alive in a Long-Distance Relationship
Before you say it, I know I’m not in a long-distance relationship, but I’ve had a couple. My first boyfriend and I were together for 7 years from 14 to 21 years old, and the last few years of that relationship were split across the south of England and Southeast Asia. A more recent relationship…
