In various sexual relationships over the years, I’ve explored my submissive side, yet I call myself a feminist. But can you be a feminist as a submissive? Does submission conflict with feminist ideals? Yes you can and no, it doesn’t have to. How does submission encompass feminism? Finding yourself wanting to play with the power…
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A Different Kind of Valentine’s Day
I’m surprised at how hard I’ve found it to be in a relationship again. Over the past two years, I have grown and changed and I was so eager to get into a relationship with the right kind of person I worry I’ve steamed ahead too fast. Finding a really lovely man has meant I’ve…
Daily Contradictions of My Version of Feminism
Don’t assume I need help with hanging this picture but when I ask, be glad to help. If my computer crashes, show me how to fix it but stay with me in case I can’t do it. Don’t expect me to make dinner and do the dishes, but if I do, be thankful and smother…
Feeling Unsafe on Home Soil
I have never felt unsafe in Brighton, but last night I was walking the three-minute walk from the pub to the taxi rank and a bloke called after me. Â We didn’t know one another but he caught up with me and we shared a conversation. Â He asked where I was going. Â Home. Â Can he come?…
Still Searching for Prince Charming 