Fancy a bit of rear-ended action? Welcome to your equipment list. Fear not: you don’t need anything expensive, but you will need a bit of preparation. Anal sex is not a spontaneous act. If you’re the receiver, you’ll want to eat a fibre-rich diet for a week or so, use the loo at least an…
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Is Feeld’s “A Fucking Magazine” Worth It?
Our favourite online dating app has switched things up again. However, instead of launching a new feature or adjusting its premise (hello, Bumble), the creators of Feeld have published a print magazine. The chances are, you’ve heard of Feeld, but for the uninitiated: Feeld used to be a niche dating app for the queer, kinky…
Jingle Balls and Tinsel Tits – Sex Toy Advent Calendar for 2024
Fancy ditching nativity scenes and mini chocolates in favour of a more interesting December countdown? Spice up your Advent with a sex toy advent calendar bursting with gifts that keep on giving. With treats behind 12 or 24 doors, ranging from satin blindfolds to luxury sex toys (aimed at men, women or couples) there’s a…
Fetish Clothing for Beginners
When you’re first dipping your toes into BDSM, it can be difficult to know where to begin. Do you need all the bondage gear? Must you spend a fortune on latex? And do you have to buy stripper heels? After you’ve spoken with your partner about exploring BDSM together, then comes the fun bit: choosing…
What Do Women Want in Bed?
What do women fantasise about? Gillian Anderson’s hotly anticipated new book “Want” is a collection of 174 sexual fantasies of women from around the world. Published in September 2024, the book began as the project “Dear Gillian” which received over 1,800 anonymous submissions from women about their deepest fantasies. In her introduction, Anderson says she…
Is “Impact Play” a Misnomer?
Within the BDSM community, one of the most widely practised kinks is impact play – striking the body of a consenting partner for sexual pleasure. So widely practised and depicted as such in the media, that for many outside of the community, “impact play” seems synonymous with BDSM. Typically, BDSM is misinterpreted as spanking and…
The Art of Orgasm Edging
Have you heard the term “edging” and wondered what it means? Are you here to find out how to do it or learn new ways to incorporate edging into your sexual repertoire? Seasoned edgers and edging novices: read on. So what does “edging” actually mean? Edging is when a person brings themself (or is brought…
Share Your Story
Feature on the blog by sharing your story! Have a sexy story to share but are unsure where to share it? Want to tell a sexy tale but can’t find the words? Have a unique perspective on something saucy and want to yell it from the rooftops? I’d love to hear from you! Get in…
“Choose Your Own Adventure” – A Sexy Script
A sexy script I’ve never published. Choose Your Own Adventure INT. EARLY EVENING, A LIVELY RESTAURANT We can hear other people chatting in the restaurant and music in the background. The waiter approaches the table where Max and Rosie are sitting. WAITER The Portuguese white? ROSIE (simultaneously) Lovely, thank you! MAX (simultaneously) Awesome, thanks. We…
Temperature Play: From Hot and Sticky to Cool and Slippery
Ever fancied the idea of using an ice-cold dildo but don’t want it sticking to your vag? Like the thought of hot wax but not third-degree burns? For top tips on making temperature play go down a treat, I’ve got you covered. Temperature play is a form of (consensual) sensation play whereby people explore and…
Still Searching for Prince Charming 