Seeking a last-minute, sexy getaway before Britain’s brief summer ends and a long winter begins? Here’s what to pack for a sexy minibreak with your partner. How can I be of service, Madam? If you’re both hoping to explore role-play, pack some sexy role-play outfits that suit your fantasies. Some ideas: cops and robbers, nurse…
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5 Top Apps for Sexual Wellness
Is your sex drive too low or too high? Are you having enough sex? Can you have too much sex? The internet is awash with ways to tell us we’re not having enough sex and that we need to have more, more, more! But is the advice we read online or in magazines really all…
Sex Doesn’t Have to be Sexy
Think about the best sex you’ve ever had. Was it animalistic? Was it erotically risky? Was it amongst a crowd? Now think about the best sex you’ve ever had and remember you don’t have to share that thought with anyone. You don’t need to pretend the best sex you’ve had was in a room full…
How to Explore BDSM and Kinky Sex when Pregnant
Type “kink in pregnancy” into a search engine and you’ll mainly find medical articles about a physical kink in the ureter during pregnancy or results (that are mainly porn) about pregnancy fetishes. There are only a handful of articles covering how to explore kinky sex, like BDSM, when pregnant. At first, I was surprised –…
My Girlfriend is Pregnant. Now What?! – Your Guide from an Expectant Dad
So your girlfriend has told you she’s pregnant. Exciting, nerve-wracking time. No doubt you’re subtly Googling what to do when you find out your partner is pregnant and you’re sure to come across a torrent of advice articles. This isn’t a post about how to support your partner through pregnancy; there’s enough of that content…
How to Have the Hottest Hotel Sex with Your Lover
There’s something about hotel sex that’s just so damn hot. Getting out of the house, treating yourselves to date night luxury and knowing that the sheets aren’t yours to clean… You might have an idea of how you want the night to go but how do you make it a reality? Here are my top…
Peeling off Each Other’s Layers
It’s tricky, isn’t it? We’re told to be authentic, to be unapologetically ourselves and to demand others accept us or steer clear. At the same time, we hope for allure from our lovers (even a little mystery, perhaps?) and, in the realm of online dating, someone who bares all holds little appeal. In the absence…
Attachment, Love Languages and Erotic Blueprints
We all know our upbringing and life experiences shape how we interact with the world – from how we deal with adversity to how we forge relationships (and everything in between) – so it’s no surprise psychologists are on a mission to understand this behaviour. In 1969, John Bowlby’s pioneering work constructed the theory of…
Taking Your First Steps into BDSM
A former version of this post was originally written for Torture Garden and posted on their blog. Torture Garden is the world’s largest Fetish and Body Art Club with global events attracting open-minded individuals of all sexual orientations and genders. By Holly Field. You’ve managed to broach the topic of BDSM with your partner, well…
Bibi does…Brighton, with Calandra and Tim
This summer, on one of Brighton’s few hot evenings of the year, 30-odd sweaty foreheads and hastily-foraged freestanding fans bundled into Amy’s Room for another night of Bibi Lynch’s comedy chat show. This time hosted with local journalist Tracey Davies, Bibi spoke with Brighton’s iconic husband-and-wife duo, Tim Richardson and Calandra Balfour about their story,…
Still Searching for Prince Charming 