The Reality of Sex as a New Parent

7:30 PM – BATHTIME Daddy: It’s been months since we had a romantic bath together. Mummy: We could hop in now with the baby? Daddy: Hmm, in the last few baths, he’s done explosive poos so I might give the bath a miss… 7:45 PM – WINDDOWN Mummy: Come and cuddle us on the sofa….

Share Your Story

Feature on the blog by sharing your story! Have a sexy story to share but are unsure where to share it? Want to tell a sexy tale but can’t find the words? Have a unique perspective on something saucy and want to yell it from the rooftops? I’d love to hear from you! Get in…

“Choose Your Own Adventure” – A Sexy Script

A sexy script I’ve never published. Choose Your Own Adventure INT. EARLY EVENING, A LIVELY RESTAURANT We can hear other people chatting in the restaurant and music in the background. The waiter approaches the table where Max and Rosie are sitting. WAITER The Portuguese white? ROSIE  (simultaneously) Lovely, thank you! MAX (simultaneously) Awesome, thanks. We…

Having a Baby Improved My Sex Life. Here’s How

Everyone warns you about the catastrophic effect of having children on your sex life. They say: “Your pelvic floor won’t feel the same”, “You’ll hardly find time for each other”, and “You’ll be covered in baby vomit most of the time”. But having a baby together strengthens the connection between you and your partner. Together,…

Temperature Play: From Hot and Sticky to Cool and Slippery

Ever fancied the idea of using an ice-cold dildo but don’t want it sticking to your vag? Like the thought of hot wax but not third-degree burns? For top tips on making temperature play go down a treat, I’ve got you covered. Temperature play is a form of (consensual) sensation play whereby people explore and…

What to Pack for a Sexy Mini-break

Seeking a last-minute, sexy getaway before Britain’s brief summer ends and a long winter begins? Here’s what to pack for a sexy minibreak with your partner. How can I be of service, Madam? If you’re both hoping to explore role-play, pack some sexy role-play outfits that suit your fantasies. Some ideas: cops and robbers, nurse…

5 Top Apps for Sexual Wellness

Is your sex drive too low or too high? Are you having enough sex? Can you have too much sex? The internet is awash with ways to tell us we’re not having enough sex and that we need to have more, more, more! But is the advice we read online or in magazines really all…

Your Guide to Dating in Brighton

Everyone says that “Brighton is London by the sea”. People who say this don’t live in Brighton… Brighton comes into its own during the hot summer months when it’s heaving with locals and visitors alike; people flocking to the seaside for quintessentially-British fish and chips, booze and music with a view, and to bat off…

How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex

Isn’t it funny how it’s not always easy to talk to the person you’re sleeping with about the sex life you share? Will one of you judge the other? Will one of you be offended? Oh God, will one of you worry a dumping is imminent? Perhaps one of you finds communicating in general difficult…

Worried You’re Sleeping with a Narcissist? How to Spot a Selfish Lover

Years ago, I dated a self-confessed narcissist (naturally). I didn’t realise it initially; she was generous in spirit, engaging in conversation and frequently telling fascinating stories. It took me longer than I’d like to admit to spot the stories were all about her own life, and any attempt to share experiences was swiftly quashed. In…