“Keep this weekend free,” he says, pointing at my iCal. “Why?” “Just keep it free.” In the week leading up to the surprise weekend, clues are carefully offered. “You’ll want a nice dress and heels for Saturday night.” “Don’t look at your emails from Amazon.” (A bottle of Moet arrives in the post.) “You need…
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A Sexy Playlist – part 3
If you’ve found your way here, you’re likely still hunting for sexy songs. Maybe you didn’t find enough songs for your sexy playlist in part 1 or part 2, or maybe you’re the kind of person who listens to sexy music all night long. Either way, pick and choose from this unordered selection. For me,…
Try These Kinky and Romantic Sex Positions
I’m a true believer that the best sex is playful sex. The kind of sex where you giggle halfway through or roll about the bed laughing afterwards. Or the kind that has you up the walls, backwards over the bed, or dressed up in a kinky outfit. Sex can become monotonous and predictable when you’ve…
Eat Yourself Sexy: Aphrodisiacs to Try
What turns you on more? The sight of a pizza box by the remote control or a pile of juicy, red strawberries placed next to the bed? No doubt, it depends on your mood. But if you and your lover are trying to make time for sex, a bit of preparation in the kitchen can…
Noodles: A Declaration of Love
The baby’s in bed. I’m on the sofa with either my book or blog open. The boyfriend is in the kitchen, cooking up his signature dish – though he’s embarrassed to call it so. I know I have 45 minutes to an hour in which to absorb myself in words; someone else’s or my own,…
A Sexy Playlist – part 2
Who doesn’t want a 10-hour+ playlist to seduce, smooch and shag to? I’ve got you covered. You can find part 1 of my (unordered) sexy playlist here. Below, you’ll find even more songs to get your body and bed rocking. Pick and choose songs that delight you. For me, this playlist is ever-evolving. (Part 2…
Books With Great Sex Writing
You might think writing a sex scene is easy, but try it and you’ll find it isn’t. Whose arm goes where? Can he really get his dick in from that position? Whoops, she now has three legs. Read a poorly-written sex scene and you’ll know you’re reading a poorly-written sex scene. Read a great sex…
4 Ways to Make Time for Sex
When you’re living with a partner, sex can suffer. There’s no longer the eager anticipation of weekend visits to each other’s homes with ample time to scrub, shave and moisturise in the preceding days. Instead, you’re sharing a bathroom… Then, add life stressors, children and comfort to the mix. See how easily sex slides down…
Holiday Sex
You’re heading on holiday with your partner. Your destination is adults-only, has a private hot tub, and has a floor-to-ceiling window with an impressive view. You’re going to have so much sex. What do you pack? Condoms, lube, sexy lingerie, obviously. How about that new sex toy you’ve both been meaning to try? Or that…
The Dating App Banishing Ghosting
If you’ve lived under a rock for the last five years, “being ghosted” is when someone you’re chatting with on a dating app suddenly ceases contact. You’re left on read receipts, disconnected from without any indication why, and left feeling glum. No matter the app, ghosting happens – and to a lot of people. According to…
Still Searching for Prince Charming 