A Sexy Playlist – part 1 – Still Searching for Prince Charming

What songs get you in the mood? Do you opt for a sensual genre or seek a particular song? I whack on my “Me and You” playlist. (I’m a serial shuffler, so there’s no order to it. Life’s too busy to think about BPM.)

I first published this sexy playlist about 5 years ago. Since then, I’ve found myself linking back to it in recent posts, like this one about orgasms. As playlists often are, it’s a work in progress, with songs regularly deleted and added.

Here’s the updated version, for your aural pleasure…

No Angel – Mack & Diesel. Possibly the hottest song ever.
Freak Like Me (Armand Van Helden Remix) – Lee Walker vs. DJ Deeon. An oldie but a goody.
Need to Feel Loved (Adam K & Soha Vocal Mix) – Reflekt. Total banger.
2 Spirits (Radio Edit) – Jonk & Spook. “Two people, just meeting. Barely touching each other. Two spirits, just greeting; trying to carry it further.” Touch me. No, be brave, touch him.
Heart Shaped Box ft. Julia Church – Goldfish. As brilliant in the bedroom as it is driving at top speed down an empty road.
Feel It – Michele Morrone. Remember that Polish erotic thriller, 365 Days, on Netflix during Covid? You will when you listen to this.
Prisoner – Raphael Lake, Aaron Levy, Daniel Ryan Murphy. And this one.
There is Hope – Zoo Brazil ft. Rasmus Kellerman. Perfect music to listen to in the background whilst flirting over a glass or bottle of wine.
Do It For Me – Rosenfeld. Babygirl vibes.
Hunter – Galantis. This would also work perfectly in the Power Playlist.
Need to Feel Loved (Seb Fontaine & Jay P’s Type Mix) – Reflekt & Delline Bass. Yes, again, but a different version.
Skin (Dinner Date “Campfire” Edit) – Boy. I think I first heard this in Ibiza, and it takes me back to dreamy cocktails watching the sunset.
Feeling You – Harrison Storm. A much slower pace, but a beautiful, rousing song.
Underwater – Rufus du Sol. Dreamy and sexy in equal measure.
There’s Something About You – Hayden James. Sexy, groovy vibes.
Alright (Kings of Tomorrow – Finally Acapella) Erick Morillo Mix – Red Carpet. One of the best songs ever.
Body Close – Lyves, Synkro. This track becomes increasingly sexy as it progresses.
All About U – salute. Finding that new squeeze and getting over an ex.
Dancing (Again!) ft. Tiga vs Audion – Eats Everything. “Let’s go dancing, I wanna go dancing with you, all night dancing.”
Girl for You – Moonwalk. Everything about this song is sexy and gorgeous.
Desperado – Rihanna. I’m not usually a Rihanna fan, but this steamy song had to be on the playlist.
Do I Wanna Know? – Arctic Monkeys. The exquisite agony of someone not wanting you the way you want them.
Breathe ft. Sean Paul – Blu Cantrell. This is another song that’s on both this playlist and the Power Playlist.
Moments (ft. Leo Stannard) – Kidnap Kid. “In these moments, I lose focus…” Gorgeous lyrics and vocals.
Pillowtalk – Zayn. Obviously.
Steal – Maribou State, Holly Walker. Vocals for Maribou State songs rarely disappoint.
Places (Icarus Remix) ft. Ina Wroldsen – Martin Solveig. “Nothing ever feels good, when I’m not with you.”
Something About Us – ANDREWBATES. When you and your partner feel like a truly special pairing.
Breaking Me – Topic, A7S. Not my usual genre, but hey, it works.
Big TV (Tube & Berger Remix) – White Lies. This song builds wonderfully.
Awake – Shakes Milano. I adore the deep, slow vocals on this track.
Better Together – Hayden James, Running Touch. Another Hayden James. Obvs.
House Every Weekend – David Zowie. This is a surprise, but I love it after a night out.
How Deep Is Your Love? – Calvin Harris & Disciples. “Let me roam your body freely.”
Boss – Disclosure. This makes me think of my ex, but in a really good way. It led to excellent sex.
Hidden Love (George Kwali Remix) – Hannah Wants ft. Detour City. Another surprisingly clubby one…
Adieu – Tchami. As above.
Honey – Robyn. Naturally.
Hang With Me – Robyn. Natch.
Back Of My Mind – Two Feet. Gorgeous and sexy with a voice like caramel.
Mir A Nero (Original Mix) – Michel Cleis. A bit of a sexy Spanish number.
4 Fingers – Kayper. Yes, please.
I Put a Spell On You (Fifty Shades of Grey) – Annie Lennox. Is it even a sexy playlist without a song from Fifty Shades?!
Chasing – Kokiri. This has a classic Ibiza club vibe to it.
Oh Woman Oh Man (MK Remix) – London Grammar. London Grammar’s vocals are always hot.
Tears in Your Eyes (Extended Mix) – Nora En Pure. A song that builds perfectly with a man who has a stunning voice.
Constellations – CamelPhat. This feel-good tune will help you feel fabulously sexy.
Feel the Rush – EDX. What a song!
Together – Tourist. Another slow builder and a song that reminds me of an ex, but it’s great.
King Kong – Icarus. This song reminds me of my best friend and our fun times together.
Miracle – Stephen Murphy ft. Emie. A classic and a banger.
The Only Thing (Tube & Berger Remix) – Claptone. “The only thing is that I want you tonight.”
Simple Things – Miguel. Steamy song.
Rhythm is a Dancer (Deep House Mix) – Holter & Mogyoro ft. Bella Wagner. House version of a classic.
Glue – BICEP. Because no Out Out evening should omit this.
If You See The Stars – Lexer. Even though I usually skip this song, when I forget to, I really enjoy it.
Roses (Imanbek Remix) – SAINt JHN, Imanbek. God knows what the lyrics are, but there’s something about “turn it on” and that just feels hot.
Lost the Game – Two Feet. Vocals that ooze with sex.
DUST – HAELOS – This one never gets old. Sexy, sexy, sexy.
Ooh La La – Goldfrapp. A toe-tapping banger.
Nobody – Gordon City, DRAMA. “And nobody’s gonna want you, like I do.”
A Taste – Two People. The kind of sultry song that gets under your skin.
Bending Back – Art School Girlfriend. Slow sexy vibes. “Bending back for you is fine.” Mmm.
Somebody Told Me – The Killers. One of the best songs by one of the best bands. Nothing like a singalong to fire you up.
Mr. Brightside – The Killers. “She’s touching his chest now/He takes off her dress now…”
Home ft. Aurora (Lane 8 Remix) – Icarus. A good slow builder.
Sinnerman (Felix Da Housecat’s Heavenly House Mix) – Nina Simone, Felix Da Housecat. Love this one.
Alive – Naations. Another great song.
Dance Monkey – Tones And I. Reminds me of an ex who could dance incredibly well, and used to dance to this often.
Destination Calabria – Alex Guadino, Crystal Waters. Can you even hear that trumpet beat and not start dancing?!
oh baby – LCD Soundsystem. Mmmhmm. That build.
Silence (Niels Van Gogh vs. Thomas Gold Remix) – Delerium ft Sarah McLachlan. Classic clubby song.
Just – Bicep. A house song that builds wonderfully.
Feeling U (Deep Mix) – Sonny Fodera ft. Yasmin. Sexy dance song.
Even If It Hurts – Sam Tinnesz. Sexy song.
Dim It – MIYAVI, Rosie Bones. A bit out there for the playlist, but it takes me back to The Pearl Necklace at Torture Garden.
Guys My Age – Hey Violet. So does this. Plus, it reminds me of the guy I dated who was about 12 years my senior. And (unbeknownst to me at the time) married with kids.
Close To You (Icarus Remix) – Arle. “I can be the one, I can be the one for you.”
Late Night (Solomun Remix) – Foals. This song is incredible (especially this version). “Calling out your name…”
Touch Me – Rui Da Silva. The OG sexy club song.
Often (Kygo remix) – The Weeknd, Kygo. Featuring on every sexy playlist.
Just Friends – Hayden James, Boy Matthews. Hello again, Hayden.
Burning With You ft. Mike Vigil – Vibe. Another song that reminds me of sexy nights with an ex.
Paradise Circus (Gui Boratto Remix) – Massive Attack. Can you go wrong with Massive Attack? No.
Hideaway – Kiesza. “Hideaway with me some more.”
Demons – Jerro, Sophia Bel. A feel-good, sexy dance song.
Strangers (ft. Ella Loponte) – David Tort, Markem, Yas Cepeda, Ella Loponte. “Do you remember what we did last night?”
Why I Love You – CRi, Ouri, Odile Myrtil. A sexy dance track.
The Giver – Duke Dumont. Obviously.
Frozen (ft. 070 Shake) – Madonna, Sidekick, 070 Shake. As if it were possible to improve this ’90s banger?!
Gosh – Jamie xx. There’s something about this song that is very sexy.
Sex and Candy – Unions. So utterly hot.
FRZZN – OZZIE Teflon Sega. “At my place if you want.”
Make Me Feel – Elvis Drew. “Touch me. Feel me. Make me feel whatever you want.”
Magnetize – My Digital Enemy. Perfect for after a clubby night out.
Follow You Down – Just Her. Slower, deeper and oh so sexy.
Spa – Icona Pop, Sofi Tukker. Just listen to the lyrics.
Body Say – Demi Lovato. “You can touch me with slow hands. Speed it up, baby, make me sweat.”
S&M – Rihanna. If whips and chains excite you, check out this S&M toolkit.
Lullaby (Acoustic) – Sigala ft. Paloma Faith. This is a completely different vibe from the other songs, but it’s gorgeous and reminds me of a best friend who played it all the time when we lived together.
Someone – Nectr, Charlz. “Tell me I’m not just someone.”
Hurting (ft AlunaGeorge) – SG Lewis, AlunaGeorge. “Hurting for your body and your soul.” Mmm, yes.
La Danza – John Summit. Reminds me of the morning after the first night with the man who would become my life partner.
Skin (Wilkinson Remix) – Rag’n’Bone Man. A song that makes me think of special times with a former friend.
Love Is a Bitch – Two Feet. I have a feeling this isn’t the last Two Feet song on this playlist…
Stay – Sigma. “Give me all of your love/I need all of your love.”
King and Queen – Lee Richardson. What a powerful song!
Talking Body – Tove Lo. Yes, put your perfect body on me.
Body – Loud Luxury ft. Brando. “2am love gotta keep it down.” Phwoar.
Tenderless ft. Emer Dineen (Whiney Remix) – London Elektricity. Very drum ‘n’ bassy, so I usually skip it.
You’re So High – Eli & Fur. Background music, but make it sensual.
No Good – Always Never. A nice, sexy song.
So Hot (MK x Nightlapse Remix) – Annabel Englund, MK, Nightlapse. “It’s so hot. I can barely breathe.”
Baby – Bakermat. Everyone loves this song.
Mirrors – Natalia Kills. Hot. Sexy. Hot, hot, hot.
You Bring Me Joy (Chris Karpas Remix) – Amelia Lily. Super sexy song.
The Hills – The Weeknd. A song that is surely on every sexy playlist.
Afternoon – TENDER. Another easy, sexy background tune as you’re watching your lover move around the room.
Leaves – BAILE, Felicia Douglass. Low-key sexy vibes.
Kiss Me – Frank Walker, Theresa Rex. Just kiss me, goddammit.
I Feel Like I’m Drowning – Two Feet. Uhh. Two Feet’s voice is truly orgasmic.
Stay Over – Tove Lo. Heard this at a Skirt Club event and whacked it on the playlist immediately.