When Will Sex Be Good Again?

Warning: spoilers and content some readers may find triggering. “In recent years, two requirements have emerged for good sex; consent and self-knowledge,” writes Katherine Angel in her recent book, Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again*.  When it comes to self-knowledge (we’ll get to consent shortly), it’s not always easy to know what turns us on…

How to Explore BDSM Whilst in Quarantine

This post was originally written for Torture Garden and posted on their blog. Torture Garden is the world’s largest Fetish and Body Art Club with global events attracting open-minded individuals of all sexual orientations and genders. By Holly Field. It’s been a long year and during this pandemic, our sex lives have taken a battering….

Sex Podcasts

There’s a podcast for everything, meaning, there’s a podcast for everyone. And although I’m no longer driving to work each day (and therefore don’t listen to podcasts as much as I used to), I still try and catch up on my favourite ones. Some are hilarious, others inspiring, and some spark an idea for a…

The Dangers of ‘Neat and Tucked in’

Brighton, like the rest of the UK, is in the grip of a lockdown. To get through January, my housemates and I are keeping busy. We’ve enhanced our professional offerings, dressed up and conducted photoshoots for our new websites and found ourselves absorbed in great TV (because there is only so much time you can…

To pube or not to pube? It’s none of your business.

Almost two years ago I wrote about My Love Affair with Pubic Hair. And, amazingly, it’s the top post by which people stumble across this blog from Google. Aside from the catchy title and everyone being intrinsically nosy, why else would it be so popular? Is its because pubes are such a divisive issue or…

Top 100 Sex Blogs 2020

How exciting!  Whilst being locked down in the UK, Molly at Molly’s Daily Kiss has been trawling through sex blogs to compile this year’s list of Top 100 Sex Blogs, sponsored by Chaturbate. I’m so excited to even be on the list (no. 52 for those who like a quick answer) and surrounded by amazing…


The battlefield behind you
tells not of bloodied corpses
but of poppies;
each poppy a lesson learnt
from a romance
or a dalliance.

To navigate this war zone
you’ve used intuition and strategy –

Tantra: An Education

For the past few months, I’ve wanted to explore another side of my sexuality, particularly tantric sex. An educationalist at heart, when I read a glowing review of Tantra, the latest exhibition at The British Museum, I felt it would be the perfect introduction to this ancient practice. So on a rainy Wednesday in October,…

Sexual Wellness: The Market That’s Approaching Second Base

An edited version of this article was originally published here for Nulune; a strategic advisory company striving for a better tomorrow.  Founded by my dear friend, Alice Bodkin, Nulune’s mission is to engage brands in conversations around sustainability and wellbeing and to inspire new ideas and disruption for the future.  Knowing my love for all…

Impressions and Lessons

Recently, I’ve noticed that the exciting direction my career has taken might have its drawbacks. When dating, conversations around work and career inevitably crop up and when I tell people I’m a writer, they usually want to know of what. And so I tell them. I tell them I write about teaching and learning, business…