Last week, I turned 31 and earlier this year, I published 30 lessons for 30. A year later, here’s more of what I learnt.
Category: Relationships
Peeling off Each Other’s Layers
It’s tricky, isn’t it? We’re told to be authentic, to be unapologetically ourselves and to demand others accept us or steer clear. At the same time, we hope for allure from our lovers (even a little mystery, perhaps?) and, in the realm of online dating, someone who bares all holds little appeal. In the absence…
Your Guide to STIs
Sleeping with someone new? Enjoying a multitude of lovers? In a monogamous relationship but realised you haven’t checked your sexual health for some time? Perhaps you had unprotected sex, missed a pill or the condom split, or maybe you’re worried about something going on “down there”. Whatever your reasons for having a sexual health check,…
Brighton
Brighton It was here where the family and I enjoyed dinner on one of my many childhood trips to Brighton and the Pier. It was the same place where, 15 years later, he asked me to be his girlfriend. When I first moved to Brighton almost 10 years ago, Uni pals and I frequented this…
What is a “CNC” Kink?
Standing for “consensual non-consent”, the acronym CNC refers to an extreme form of a Total Power Exchange (TPE) dynamic in BDSM play. It’s where two or more people agree that when the submissive(s) says “no”, they actually mean “yes”. Decipher your CNC-ers from the ENMs – learn what those acronyms on dating apps mean. CNC…
What Should I Have in my Bondage Kit?
So you’re looking to create your very own BDSM Box. Good on you! Bondage kits from sex toy shops are often (coincidentally?) priced at £69.99 and there always seems to be something missing or something you don’t quite know how to use. Here’s a handy guide on what you need in a BDSM kit, whether…
How to Sext – Advice from an Erotic Scriptwriter
Much of the advice you’ll read about how to sext will be geared towards people in a relationship. In some ways, a relationship is the perfect set-up for a sexy text: Two (or more) people who know each other intimately + Trust + Guarantee of seeing each other again = Hot texts that hit the…
How to Give A Good Blowjob
Whether you’re looking for advice on how to give a blowjob or blowjob tips more generally, you’ve cum come to the right place. You’ll probably have worked out from my blog that I don’t have a willy, so I’ve rounded up the wise words of male friends and Feeld connections to tell me how to…
A Relationship by Numbers
At first, I began documenting our dates so we could look back on them over the coming year(s?!) and remember the start of our relationship. Perhaps this should have been evidence enough that we saw each other so infrequently, there had to be a log almost to prove it happened. And here we have it,…
Is He Having An Affair… With Me?
Has the wool been pulled over my eyes? Did I miss all the red flags because I wanted him to be something more than he was? Was I a total fool? Worse – was I the Other Woman? After almost six months, I’d never been to his house, I’d never met his friends, I’d never…
Still Searching for Prince Charming 