What turns you on more? The sight of a pizza box by the remote control or a pile of juicy, red strawberries placed next to the bed? No doubt, it depends on your mood. But if you and your lover are trying to make time for sex, a bit of preparation in the kitchen can…
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“I Forgot Condoms. Are You On The Pill?”
Have you ever had an awkward conversation about contraception with a partner? So many of us have. And while the condom convo is more common for new or younger couples, even established couples can still find it awkward. But at some point, you’ve gotta have that chat. By talking openly about contraception, you’ll build trust…
Noodles: A Declaration of Love
The baby’s in bed. I’m on the sofa with either my book or blog open. The boyfriend is in the kitchen, cooking up his signature dish – though he’s embarrassed to call it so. I know I have 45 minutes to an hour in which to absorb myself in words; someone else’s or my own,…
Everyday Objects That Might be a Little Kinky
Ever found yourself feeling inexplicably turned on when doing household chores, tackling life admin or pottering in the bathroom? Maybe it’s the way it hums, the way it grips – or maybe it’s just you. The Mosquito Clicker Is this nifty little healer secretly a travel-sized electro stim wand…? With the most subtle of clicks,…
A Sex Toy for Couples that Redefines Vibration
You don’t want to read another blog post about a sex toy’s ability to give you mind-blowing orgasms. And frankly, I don’t want to write about that. Instead, let me tell you about a couple’s sex toy that’s unlike one I’ve ever seen or experienced before – bear in mind I write for Lovehoney. And…
Spotting Red and Green Flags in Dating
You’ve just met someone. They’re charming, funny, and their messages make you smile. Maybe you’ve had a few great dates. You start wondering: maybe this one is different. Maybe this’ll lead to something… Before you get carried away (we all do it), take a moment to pause and consider the red and green flags you…
Questions to Ask Your Partner Before Getting Jiggy With It
Life’s complicated, which makes sex complicated — even, or especially, with someone you’ve been in a relationship with for a while. We don’t always want sex every day, or in the same way each time we do have sex, so why should we presume our partner wants the same kind of sex each time? At…
Sex Toys for Beginners
I’ve been writing for Lovehoney for the best part of a year, and in that time, I’ve written about a lot of sex toys. Scouring countless product reviews and honest accounts on the Lovehoney Forum, I’ve got the inside scoop on the sex toys getting the nation off. You’ve probably heard of dildos, vibrators and…
There’s No Safe Way to Choke Someone
If I told you that some people get a kick out of being choked or choking someone during sex, would you raise your eyebrows or smirk? Maybe you’re into it, you’ve seen it in porn – or perhaps it’s been done to you when you didn’t ask for it. Choking is becoming increasingly common in…
4 Ways to Make Time for Sex
When you’re living with a partner, sex can suffer. There’s no longer the eager anticipation of weekend visits to each other’s homes with ample time to scrub, shave and moisturise in the preceding days. Instead, you’re sharing a bathroom… Then, add life stressors, children and comfort to the mix. See how easily sex slides down…
Still Searching for Prince Charming 