Still Searching for Prince Charming

Can Women Have Wet Dreams?

Wet dreams are often thought of as a nuisance for teenage boys so you can imagine my surprise when, one day last week, I woke up at 5 AM feeling like I’d had an orgasm. Had I actually dreamt I had an orgasm? No, I really did climax – hands-free. I’d forgotten that this had…

What Does Your Zodiac Sign Say About Your Sex Life?

Remember the days of flicking to the back of Seventeen magazine and scanning the horoscopes page to find out whether you’ll kiss your crush this weekend? For astrology believers, horoscope predictions are more than just a fun section in a glossy mag – they provide a deep understanding of what the cosmos holds for us….

Erectile Issues? Help is at Hand

Erectile dysfunction affects anywhere between 3% and 75% of men in the UK. (Estimates vary because studies use different criteria and assessment methods to define ED and the ages of the sampled participants may differ, King’s College, 2019.) Despite its increasing prevalence as men age, ED is often a source of shame, embarrassment and frustration…

Ideas to Help You Talk Dirty

Looking to have your beau hot at the collar for every saucy thing you whisper to them? Find yourself stumbling and cringing when trying to sling two sentences together? You’ve come to the right place. With the reputation of being a sex blogger, I’ve strived to get my lovers squirming in their pants for all…

Things I’ve Learnt in my First Year of Living With a Boyfriend

It’s been almost a year since my boyfriend and I moved in together. Blissful harmony? Mostly. Ridiculous squabbles? Certainly. Here’s what I’ve learned from 12 months of living with my man. The face towel by the sink is not safe In my former home with my bathroom all to myself, I could confidently dry my…

Keeping the Spark Alive in a Long-Distance Relationship

Before you say it, I know I’m not in a long-distance relationship, but I’ve had a couple. My first boyfriend and I were together for 7 years from 14 to 21 years old, and the last few years of that relationship were split across the south of England and Southeast Asia. A more recent relationship…

Is “Impact Play” a Misnomer?

Within the BDSM community, one of the most widely practised kinks is impact play – striking the body of a consenting partner for sexual pleasure. So widely practised and depicted as such in the media, that for many outside of the community, “impact play” seems synonymous with BDSM. Typically, BDSM is misinterpreted as spanking and…

8 Ways to Get Over Your Ex

Getting over an ex can be tough; even if you were the one to end the relationship. Sure, time heals, but there are ways to get over your ex faster that don’t involve a therapist. 1. Embrace activities that give you joy You may feel bereft without your former partner, but throwing yourself into activities…

Declining Giving Someone Your Number

Dating apps are a great way to connect with potential love interests, whether locally or if you’re exploring further afield. Yet before long, someone is bound to want to take the conversation off the platform and probably onto WhatsApp. Guidance on being safe while online dating advises not to share your number with someone you…

Deciphering Sexualities: Understanding Different Sexual Orientations on Dating Sites

Found yourself downloading the apps again, expecting to pick from heterosexual, homosexual and bisexual for your profile, yet being confronted by no less than 20 sexual orientations? Welcome to modern online dating. While many apps cater to myriad preferences by offering a long list of sexualities to choose from, you’d be forgiven for rolling your…