I originally wrote this for Aurore – “porn with a plotline”, published in August 2022 under the alternative title, “Starfucking”. There’s nothing like being at a live show – dancing in a sea of people, being pushed around as you all sing and shout lyrics in unison, albeit mainly off-key. You feel the drumbeat move…
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How to Explore BDSM and Kinky Sex when Pregnant
Type “kink in pregnancy” into a search engine and you’ll mainly find medical articles about a physical kink in the ureter during pregnancy or results (that are mainly porn) about pregnancy fetishes. There are only a handful of articles covering how to explore kinky sex, like BDSM, when pregnant. At first, I was surprised –…
What is a “CNC” Kink?
Standing for “consensual non-consent”, the acronym CNC refers to an extreme form of a Total Power Exchange (TPE) dynamic in BDSM play. It’s where two or more people agree that when the submissive(s) says “no”, they actually mean “yes”. Decipher your CNC-ers from the ENMs – learn what those acronyms on dating apps mean. CNC…
What Should I Have in my Bondage Kit?
So you’re looking to create your very own BDSM Box. Good on you! Bondage kits from sex toy shops are often (coincidentally?) priced at £69.99 and there always seems to be something missing or something you don’t quite know how to use. Here’s a handy guide on what you need in a BDSM kit, whether…
Who You’ll Meet on a Hookup App
Dating apps are full of interesting people. Of course they are because the world is full of interesting people and not all of them are coupled up (although it can sometimes feel like that). Like most single Millennials, I’ve been on and off dating apps for years and dated countless people with varying success. Over…
Top 10 – Wicked Wednesday
Each Wednesday there’s a prompt for bloggers to create an erotic post along this theme. This week, the prompt was “Top 10”. (I rarely get involved with Wicked Wednesday, not because I don’t like the prompts but because my day job is writing and editing, some weeks my brain is fried and creative juices dry…
A Night at Torture Garden
A taste of what you can expect from a night at London’s fetish club, Torture Garden. We hear the techno reverberating off the walls as we swagger inside. Ascending the stairs in our red lips and statement coats concealing latex lingerie, our excitement permeates the surroundings as much as the music. Do we have cash…
BDSM Glossary (N-Z) (NSFW & 18+)
This post was originally written for Torture Garden and posted on their blog in September 2021. I have since expanded the BDSM Glossary below. Most recent update: September 2024. Torture Garden is the world’s largest Fetish and Body Art Club with global events attracting open-minded individuals of all sexual orientations and genders. By Holly Field…
BDSM Glossary (A-M) (NSFW & 18+)
This post was originally written for Torture Garden and posted on their blog in September 2021. I have since expanded the BDSM Glossary below. Most recent update: September 2024. Torture Garden is the world’s largest Fetish and Body Art Club with global events attracting open-minded individuals of all sexual orientations and genders. By Holly Field…
Casual to Serious: Can it Ever Work?
Trigger Warning: This post relays scenes of rough, BDSM sex. Consensual but rough. Your mother will likely tell you that you can’t build a loving relationship from a casual hook-up. You’ll likely ignore her and be convinced this is possible in 2021 – after all, Becky and Andy started off shagging and look, they’re now…
Still Searching for Prince Charming 