Top 10 – Wicked Wednesday

Each Wednesday there’s a prompt for bloggers to create an erotic post along this theme.

This week, the prompt was “Top 10”. (I rarely get involved with Wicked Wednesday, not because I don’t like the prompts but because my day job is writing and editing, some weeks my brain is fried and creative juices dry up.) “Top 10” is the 500th Wicked Wednesday prompt, so it’s about time I properly got involved.

For almost 10 years, I’ve been blogging here. What started as a place to house tales of bad dates (and Christ has there been a lot of them), this blog has evolved to explore topics of kink, romance and promote guest blogs. Those who follow me on Instagram know I frequently share updates of content I’m writing and the posts you’re enjoying; I love seeing how my “Top Posts” change over time.

Wicked Wednesday
Wicked Wednesday

So here they are, my Top 10 viewed posts as of the close of 2021:

2021 Porn Trends

Porn Trends

Wonderful, I only posted this three days ago. Many of us don’t admit it but we’re fascinated by people’s lives behind closed doors. What are they watching? What turns them on?

NSFW: Dominating Life, Submitting in the Sheets…


In 2020, I wrote a series of posts about kink which led to me being commissioned by Torture Garden to create content for their blog (such as this article). It also meant I met spoke to people well and truly in the kink scene and learnt a lot about my own desires.

A Night at Torture Garden

Torture Garden

Another recent post after a fantastic night with friends. TG loved it and asked to re-post it on their blog.

A Relationship by Numbers

A Short-lived Relationship

The second half of 2021 was characterised by this almost-relationship, though I didn’t know it at the time.

How To Have Sex Without Family Hearing – A Festive Guide to Fucking

Festive Fucking

Because everybody loves a helpful “how-to” guide.

Acronyms on Dating Sites: What Do They Mean?


A roadmap for navigating dating apps – who to avoid and who to fantasise about.

Is He Having an Affair… With Me?

Was I The Other Woman?!

An awful experience in the end but what a learning curve and good material for the blog.


Not Anti-Porn but Pro Better Sex-Ed

As a former teacher, I had quite a bit to say on the matter.

Attachment, Love Languages and Erotic Blueprints

Psychology and Goop

I’m surprised this is one of my Top 10 posts. I wrote it after Netflix aired its Sex, Love and goop programme and enjoyed bringing in learning from my Psychology degree.

About Me


Whilst technically not a post, each day people head over to my “About Me” page – and I’m hardly surprised. Every blog I stumble upon I check out the “About” page, so keep yours up-to-date and interesting!

So I begin 2022 in my thirties, publishing around 10 articles a week at work and feeling excited to keep adding sexy, saucy and scintillating content on my blog.

Stick along for the ride, it’s gonna be kinky… (and if you don’t follow me yet, do).

30 and Flirty and Thriving (my birthday was just before Christmas)

Featured image by Oleg Magni from Pexels

4 Comments Add yours

  1. Helen says:

    This was my original plan for today Holly! Haha. I hoped to do a double post, but I’ve sill got to make some burritos to share later so unfortunately I won’t have the time. I’ve got the porn post that I promised down for next Friday instead now, so it’s still happening, just not as soon as I would have liked.

    Happy New Year, have a lovely evening!

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    1. I’ll read it next week then. Enjoy burritos!


  2. missy says:

    Oooo you look super sexy in that picture with your birthday balloons. Thank you for this post and the links. There are some posts here that I haven’t read but definitely want to. Missy x

    Liked by 1 person

    1. You charmer 😘 thanks!

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