When I started this blog at the age of 21 (I am now 28), I wanted to write about my experiences of sex, dating and relationships because what I wanted to find out and talk about regarding sex wasn’t available in the magazines I was reading, the porn I was watching or the websites I…
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Why Are We Faking It?
The pay gap’s sister, the orgasm gap, has recently had me thinking. Sexually confident and liberated women all over the world are faking orgasms. Some may be faking it because they don’t know if they’ve climaxed, others fake it so sex ends sooner and others do it because they want to placate the person they’re…
Sex Ed: Are We Doing Enough?
Children and young people across the world are returning to their classrooms. Over the past five months, many will have learnt how to make pasta from scratch, re-read all the Harry Potter books or completed their favourite video game twice over. Other children will have smoked their first spliff in the park with friends or been plonked…
Sub Space House
Creating Sub Space House When “Ropes” and “Wing Girl” created Sub Space House in December 2019, they didn’t expect a lockdown to stop their frivolous fun. Despite this, the pair are keen to resume events once it’s safe to do so and they have big, big plans for taking Sub Space global. To find out…
Bruises
Trigger warning: rough sex (consensual but rough) It wasn’t long before the blood rose to the surface. A red slash on my hipfrom the crack of the whipwas the first to appear. Next came the speckled purple and blueon my boob, slapped by you. How would my cheek react? Hands around my throatmaking me chokeas…
Dominating Life, Submitting in the Sheets…
As regular readers will know, 2020 has so far been an experience. Not least because I split with my ex just before a global lockdown, or because I’ve got a new job as an erotic scriptwriter for Emjoy, but also because I’ve been delving deeper into the world of kink. I’ve always loved talking to people and finding…
What Are The 5 Love Languages?
At the beginning of lockdown, many of us had grand plans to learn another language or skill. Despite my sordid attempts, this hasn’t happened – though I have learnt about the Five Love Languages and deepened my understanding of kink and desire. Since turning 14, I’ve had three relationships, a handful of flings and experiences as…
Love and Lust in Lockdown: An Education
Lockdown has got many of us feeling hot under the collar and frisky between the sheets. To find out how lockdown has impacted our love and lust lives, I’m getting intimate with interviews. Seb (male), 33 What is your relationship status? Single. Describe your love life in one word. Untraditional. Who have you been quarantining…
Love and Lust in Lockdown: Filthy Adventures for the Future
Lockdown has got many of us feeling hot under the collar and frisky between the sheets. To find out how lockdown has impacted our love and lust lives, I’m getting intimate with interviews. Zeek (male), 31 What is your relationship status? I’m currently single and not looking for a monogamous relationship. Describe your love life…
Love and Lust in Lockdown: Man and His Best Friends
Lockdown has got many of us feeling hot under the collar and frisky between the sheets. To find out how lockdown has impacted our love and lust lives, I’m getting intimate with interviews. Dougie (male), 29 What is your relationship status? I’m in an open relationship. Describe your love life in one word. Fulfilling. Who…
Still Searching for Prince Charming 