Still Searching for Prince Charming

5 Surprising Ways Being a Parent has Changed our Relationship

After a year together, my partner and I had a baby. The pregnancy was a marvellous surprise and parenting has been a total joy. We expected there to be sleepless nights, less sex and fewer dates but we didn’t expect some changes. Love Languages Our love languages have changed. My partner and I both had…

Online Dating and Romance Scams: What They Are and How to Identify and Avoid Them

Catfishing is part and parcel of online dating, but what happens when someone does more than just post a younger, more flattering photo of themselves or lies about their age? How might someone con a love interest into parting with their cash? And does this really happen these days? Sadly yes. Skilled romance scammers know…

Sitting Here

You made me slow down, be more present. The to-do list will always be there – ever-growing. Just like you. Emails, ironing and organising can wait. Before long you’ll be crawling, running, leaving. I think I’ll just sit here, in the morning winter sun, with you lazily feeding, enjoying this moment. There’ll come a day…

The Reality of Sex as a New Parent

7:30 PM – BATHTIME Daddy: It’s been months since we had a romantic bath together. Mummy: We could hop in now with the baby? Daddy: Hmm, in the last few baths, he’s done explosive poos so I might give the bath a miss… 7:45 PM – WINDDOWN Mummy: Come and cuddle us on the sofa….

Share Your Story

Feature on the blog by sharing your story! Have a sexy story to share but are unsure where to share it? Want to tell a sexy tale but can’t find the words? Have a unique perspective on something saucy and want to yell it from the rooftops? I’d love to hear from you! Get in…

16 Red Flags Not to Ignore When Dating Someone New

With the benefit of hindsight, many of the people I’ve dated over the years had red flags cropping up here and there. Here are 16 red flags I should have spotted but didn’t. My mother did, but mothers always do. Photo by Priscilla Du Preez 🇨🇦 on Unsplash

“Choose Your Own Adventure” – A Sexy Script

A sexy script I’ve never published. Choose Your Own Adventure INT. EARLY EVENING, A LIVELY RESTAURANT We can hear other people chatting in the restaurant and music in the background. The waiter approaches the table where Max and Rosie are sitting. WAITER The Portuguese white? ROSIE (simultaneously) Lovely, thank you! MAX (simultaneously) Awesome, thanks. We…

Having a Baby Improved My Sex Life. Here’s How

Everyone warns you about the catastrophic effect of having children on your sex life. They say: “Your pelvic floor won’t feel the same”, “You’ll hardly find time for each other”, and “You’ll be covered in baby vomit most of the time”. But having a baby together strengthens the connection between you and your partner. Together,…

Temperature Play: From Hot and Sticky to Cool and Slippery

Ever fancied the idea of using an ice-cold dildo but don’t want it sticking to your vag? Like the thought of hot wax but not third-degree burns? For top tips on making temperature play go down a treat, I’ve got you covered. Temperature play is a form of (consensual) sensation play whereby people explore and…

What to Pack for a Sexy Mini-break

Seeking a last-minute, sexy getaway before Britain’s brief summer ends and a long winter begins? Here’s what to pack for a sexy minibreak with your partner. How can I be of service, Madam? If you’re both hoping to explore role-play, pack some sexy role-play outfits that suit your fantasies. Some ideas: cops and robbers, nurse…