There’s something about hotel sex that’s just so damn hot. Getting out of the house, treating yourselves to date night luxury and knowing that the sheets aren’t yours to clean…

You might have an idea of how you want the night to go but how do you make it a reality? Here are my top tips for hot hotel sex with your partner.

Pick a hotel with room decor you both find sexy

If you’re not too bothered about bedroom decor or ambience but your S.O. is, you bet it’ll grate on them and they might find it difficult to be fully present during sex. (That loose ceiling panel needs nailing down, a dirty window might improve the view of the sooty wall, and what’s that pile of hair in the corner?)

Fortunately, we’re not short of sexy hotels in London, and a quick Google will bring up boudoirs to suit any couple with a range of budgets.

Talk about what you both want your night to involve

Dinner, theatre and cocktails? A boozy lunch followed by a tipsy shag and a nap in the hotel? Spending every moment in the room, fucking like rabbits then ordering room service at midnight? They all sound delightful but check with your partner about what kind of night they want.

Seize the moment

Is there something you’ve both been dying to try but don’t fancy doing in your own home? Maybe now’s your chance. Hotel showers and baths can be a fun place to experiment with golden showers. Having sex against the window (don’t forget to turn the lights off!) allows you both to explore your exhibitionist sides. And ordering ice cream and sauce for a bit of light sploshing could be right up your alley – just avoid chocolate flavour…

Pack (in)appropriately

A night of hot hotel sex requires one essential item: enthusiasm. Along with enthusiasm, you can pack anything you both find super sexy. Lube? Check. Your favourite lingerie or role-play costume? Oui. The loudest sex toys you own but can never use on account of the housemates or children. God YES!

You can forgo clothes for the next day, clean knickers, a toothbrush and a suitcase chockablock with sex toys will do you nicely.

Enjoy spending time together

Ultimately, the way to make the most out of hotel sex is to enjoy spending time in each other’s company. Leave your phones on silent, try not to argue and remember why you love each other.

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