Sex Toys for Couples – And How to Use Them – Still Searching for Prince Charming

This year, I treated myself and my partner to a Lovehoney Advent Calendar. Tempting as it was, we didn’t dive into each box to devour the treasures hidden within. Instead, we’ve been very good (I hope you’re listening, Father Christmas!) and opened the boxes day by day, as Jesus intended.

This blog ought to have been written on the seventh day but alas, we were having too much fun with the toys to find time to write. Or so I’ll have you think…

Let’s explore the couples’ sex toys and how to use them.

Rechargeable vibrating bullet, with 10 modes

Day 1 started strong with a USB rechargeable vibrating bullet boasting 10 vibration patterns. If you have ever played with a vibrating sex toy, you’ll know the drill. Singular, steady buzz of different intensities for the first few patterns, then buzzing on and off in waves or staccato rhythm.

This is a seriously strong bullet and we’re very impressed.

Ideas for how to use it

Classic masturbation accessory for men or women
Tease your partner’s erogenous zones – or your own
Add another layer of stimulation during vaginal or anal sex
Be very careful when pleasuring a bumhole: bullets don’t have flared bases so can be sucked up by the sphincter muscles
Remember to lube it up and wash it well

Sex toy wipes and Womanizer “toy gel” (lube)

Day 2 offered something that would have made sense to offer first, but it feels a little boring (probably why it’s in box 2): sex toy cleaning wipes and some lube. Essential, and perfect size for festive getaways.

Ideas for how to use them

Clean all your sex toys after you use them, especially if you have multiple partners
Use lube, even if you think it’s “cheating” or you feel ashamed about it. There’s nothing wrong with applying lube. It doesn’t mean you can’t get wet or need extra help. Embrace lube and slather it on – it’ll make everything feel even better

Hollow dildo

This is so much more than a dildo. Day 3 brought us a hollow, G-spot, suction cup silicone dildo. The silicone is unbelievably smooth and it’s compatible with the bullet from box 1 – just pop it inside the dildo.

Ideas for how to use it

Use as a G-spot dildo, or slide a bullet inside for penetration that gives you toe-curling vibrations
The suction cup can be stuck to any smooth surface, such as the wall, a mirror or the shower
Remember to lube it up and wash it well

Ribbed stroker

A ribbed stroker (compatible with the bullet from the first box) arrived on day 4. Made from clear, rubbery silicone, this dick stoker has a small pocket for a bullet vibrator – proving bullets really can be a couples’ toy.

Ideas for how to use it

Lube up the stroker and the penis before sliding it on to enjoy textured stimulation
Ideal for both solo masturbation and partner play, this toy will level up your wank
To use the bullet as well, pop it into the pocket before easing the stroker over your dick
Remember to wash it after use

Blindfold

On day 5 we were reminded that no sex box is complete without a blindfold. Don’t be disappointed if you already have one. “You need about 10 blindfolds just to find one in your sex box,” says my partner (only half-kidding).

This Lovehoney blindfold is made from super soft material and is very comfortable.

Ideas for how to use it

Wear a blindfold to experience sensory deprivation and heighten other senses
Experiment with flavoured lube or chocolate body paints
Tease each other with a feather tickler or a pinwheel

Butt plug

Day 6 bestowed a gold crystal butt plug. Small enough to be appealing to many couples curious about exploring anal play, yet large enough to stimulate all those nerve endings inside your bum. If you’re really interested in anal, you’ll need a lot more than just a butt plug. Here’s your anal toolkit.